Why do people who love themselves get judged? π€ Many people face criticism and judgment when they express their confidence and self-love. One compliment about one's beauty, intelligence, or success can trigger a whole wave of ridicule and sarcasm. π It seems that for some people, it's easier to say something bad about themselves to get attention and sympathy than it is to just accept and love themselves. π This game of self-judgment and comparing ourselves to others creates difficulty in working through low self-esteem. After all, when we judge ourselves, we get attention and comfort. π’ But why is it so hard to accept and love yourself? π€·ββοΈ From childhood, we are often told to live for the sake of others, not to choose ourselves. And if someone decides to break this "law", they face criticism and judgment. π« In the end, everyone is involved in this game: some become "victims" by receiving sympathy, while others try to "win" by judging and criticizing. But it's important to remember that everyone deserves love, respect and acceptance, including yourself! ππ